It's time to spring clean your closet, step out, and never look back as PRIDE is celebrated throughout the country.

When we took our year long journey, Gay Into Straight America, our key question that we asked every single person we met was "Do you know a gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender person?" It was 100% "Yes." Invariably, the person they knew was a friend or family member. Sometimes, however, it was only an acquaintance, or a person they were aware of, but didn't know very well.

Near the end of the journey, we thought we had discovered ONE PERSON who didn't know a single gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender person. Jeaneane in California, "General J" as she called herself, initially said, "No." When we started jumping up and down, excitedly telling her "Oh, my goodness, you are the first person we have met," she said, "No, now wait just a minute. Let me think." Then she said, "Yes, there is a woman at work who is lesbian." Isn't it amazing? She didn't want to be the "first!"

Different from the Pew Research percentages, our personal interaction with everyday people showed an even higher number of people at least "know" a gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender person. The point is that everybody knows one of us, whether or not we are family or friend to the person who knows, so remaining silent serves no useful purpose except to keep other people uninformed about the critical issues which impact our everyday lives. Their knowledge that we exist meanss the time has come to "spring clean our closet for good" and step out in the light of day to claim the power of the gift of who we are, ridding ourselves of the last vestiges of our own internal homophobia and transphobia.

The variation in the percentages is that the Pew research asked people if they had a "friend or family member," who is gay, lesbian, bisexual and/or transgender, and we asked people if they "knew anyone" who is GLBT. Anyway you look at it, we are here to stay and we aren't going away. We are beginning to live authentic lives more and more every day. That is allowing people to get to know the whole of who we are, and discover, "You can't hate someone whose story you know." Remember, that works both ways!

If hiding has been your MO (mode of operation), why not consider doing some late spring cleaning. Not only that, consider a permanent change, and leave that closet empty for good. You won't have to spend energy each spring, finding ways to rearrange the crap that is in there, trying to make it look clean and pretty. Take out the garbage that is in there now, throw it in the trash, and keep the good stuff!

You will feel a lot better and, in the long run, so will those around you. Living and interacting in authentic ways benefits you, others and society at large. Why not truly have some PRIDE?

To your freedom, Dotti

Click here to read entire article from Diversity Inc.

Jerry Falwell & Yolanda King...Two Individuals who impacted society

Last week, I was at presenting at the transgender conference, Esprit, when I first heard that Rev. Jerry Falwell had died. When I heard the next day of the passing of Yolanda King, I couldn't help but think how, in different ways, both had so profoundly impacted my life. Yet, with my daily schedule last week of offering groups to SO's (significant others) and transgender couples, plus activities at night, there was no time to sit down and pen my thoughts. Perhaps it was better that way. I needed to mull my feelings and sit with them.

One day apart, we lost two humans who impacted our society in major ways. Now you might not see any connection between the two, but the best way I can describe it is through the words from a great song by Aretha Franklin, where she says,

R E S P E C T…
Find out What It Means to me!

Communicate with respect if you want others to hear you. The essence of Unconditional Respect is:

Everyone is as they should be.

Every human’s identity is LIFE, their form is HUMAN, respect
that.

Don’t try to respect toxic behavior. Try to understand toxic behavior. Then you can learn how to stay unattached to a specific outcome regarding both situations and people, and choose to reside in the space of love vs. fear, thus enhancing your opportunity to feeling expanded and open vs. feeling disappointed, depleted, and closed.

Reality is a shared space. Control of that reality is also shared. Everyone has a subjective reality that appears “real and right” to them.

Jerry Falwell and Yolanda King had different subjective realities. Jerry's, though harmful in many ways to me and people in my community of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons, seemed real and right to him.

I respect Jerry's human identity, while also understanding, rather than respecting, his toxic behavior that denigrated, without sound reasoning, an entire community of people.

Dont miss this blog we also wrote: Jerry's Kids: How Falwell empowered the GLBT community.

Al Gore recently quoted an African proverb at the Tribeca Film Festival that says, "If you wish to go quickly, go alone. If you wish to go far, go together." Then he builds on it. "We have to go far, quickly." He was introducing a series of environmental films that will be shown at Live Earth. "We have to make it through an uncharted region, to the outer boundaries of what's known, beyond the limits of what we imagine is doable." Then he recited a famous line from the poet Antonio Machado: "Pathwalker, there is no path. You must make the path as you walk."

The reporter writing the article said, "I once heard him get tangled in that line during the 2000 campaign, but this time, he wasn't trying too hard."

Gore continued, "We must find a path that we create together, quickly," he said. "With truth force. To seize the opportunity that lies before us."

The reporter continued, "His words were simple, direct and powerful. One clue to how he found that power lies at the end of the poem, in a line Gore doesn't recite, as the poet reveals his desire 'to be what I have never been ... a man all alone, walking with no road, with no mirror.' "

What Gore said could also be said about the journey of our community (including allies) and those who would disagree that equality for people, inclusive of those with sexual and gender variance, is a civil rights issue.

I believe that we need to walk quickly together in this arena as well. But I believe that we can each be one another's mirror, sometimes reflecting who we are not, so that we can become who we were meant to be. Jerry Falwell, like my family, offered the perfect mirror for me to evolve and grow into my authentic skin.

It all began with Gandhi, a major political and spiritual leader, who pioneered "Satyagraha"(truth force or soul force), the resistance of tyranny through mass civil disobedience, firmly founded upon "ahimsa" or total non-violence, which led India to independence and inspired movements for civil rights and freedom across the world. This philosophy extended to Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. who worked to free our country from its archaic separation of people due to race. It deeply influenced his daughter, Yolanda King, and the journey she would take in her life.

Yolanda King urged people to be a force for peace and love, and to use the King holiday each year to ask tough questions about their own beliefs about prejudice.

"We must keep reaching across the table and, in the tradition of Martin Luther King Jr. and Coretta Scott King, feed each other," she said.

The non-violent "satyagraha" philosophy was then embraced by Rev. Mel White, who used it to begin the organization Soulforce, confronting the spiritual violence of Rev. Jerry Falwell.

As Mahatma Gandhi so eloquently spoke,"Action expresses priorities."

Jerry Falwell's actions spoke volumes about his priorities. So did Yolanda King's. So do Mel White's. And it is clear that their priorities are entirely different.

May your priorities be reflected in actions that reach across the divide to bridge the polarization of any differences that separate us, offering equality and justice to all people.

The irony of Jerry's misplaced priorities is a lesson for all of us.

Namaste, Dotti

Jerry's Kids...How Falwell empowered the GLBT community

Jerry’s Kids. Perhaps you initially thought I was referring to Jerry Lewis and his kids?

No, this is different. We are the "new" set of "Jerry's Kids." This is about how Rev. Jerry Falwell, aptly labeled in 2000 by John McCain as an "agent of intolerance," actually empowered an entire community (includiing allies) to discover their voice.

Where would we all be without Jerry Falwell? Let's check out the "bigger picture," which in this case is a powerful one when we get beyond our anger at Jerry Falwell's toxic rhetoric that was continually spewed against our community.

This is what we know. The connecting threads weave the irony of how, in the end result, Jerry Falwell empowered the very community of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people he attempted to denigrate.

Yes, for all of his anti-gay remarks and dishing of mis-information (of which he was also a victim), Jerry Falwell probably single-handedly introduced more people in the gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and ally community to one another. Without him, many of us would have never known each other, as our lives were woven into our individual communities in different parts of the country.

God bless him.

A personal story often best explains situations, and this is no exception. Having presented this past week at Esprit, the transgender conference in Port Angeles, I shared that I would not have been there if it weren't for Jerry Falwell.

What makes me say this?

Without Jerry Falwell, Soulforce would have never been birthed as a response from Rev. Mel White and Gary Nixon to his oppression of the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender community.

Click here for list of podcasts and listen to our podcast interview with Mel White.

Without Jerry Falwell, I would have never been a part of the initial Soulforce gathering in 1999, and therefore would have never met Mel and Gary.

Without Jerry Falwell, I would have not met transgender woman Judy Osborne, who I met in Lynchburg in 1999 when I took a seat at a lunch counter.

Without Jerry Falwell, I would have never met and married my spouse, Robynne Sapp. I met Mary Lou and Bob Wallner (evangelical Christians who lost their lesbian daughter to suicide) in Lynchburg in 1999. That ignited their spiritual journey in a new way, leading Mary Lou to write a book, The Slow Miracle of Transformation. They speak at conferences throughout the nation. At one of those, Robynne met Mary Lou, who was the keynote speaker. As they say, the rest is history when Mary Lou introduced me to Robynne.

Without Jerry Falwell, Roby and I would have never taken our year-long journey, Gay Into Straight America, committed to bridging the polarization in our country regarding people's understanding about gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons. We would never be planning the second project of Stand UP Speak OUT, Inc. In 2008, we will embark on that project, The Great American Roadcast, and we will recall Rev. Jerry Falwell as we seek to build inclusive community in our country and beyond.

Without Jerry Falwell, countless gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and ally brothers and sisters across the country would have never met. That much is a fact.

Shame on all the misinformation that Jerry Falwell perpetuated against our community, and for all the horrific tragedies that occurred because of the misinformation. In the end result, however, we found our voice and our empowerment through looking him in the eyes, and saying, “No more! I am who I am!” For that reason, our gratefulness should override our anger.

Jerry Falwell is a man who used the misinformation that was taught to him to teach others that same misinformation. His death means that one less individual is perpetuating that misinformation about a group of people. Jerry grew to have a different understanding about race; he never crossed the abyss of his misunderstanding regarding sexual orientation and gender identity. A teacher is a teacher, and sometimes the information is bad. Beware. That is how it was with Jerry.

I hold Jerry Falwell accountable for the spiritual violence he perpetuated. I am simultaneously thankful both for free speech and the consequences of free speech. It allows us to grow and evolve.

As Rev. Mel White often said about Rev. Falwell while he was alive, "Jerry is sincere, but he is sincerely wrong."

He was then, and it remains so today, even in the shadow of his death. But let us celebrate the inspiration and mirror he provided for our own transformation, bringing forth our voices in celebration of ourselves.

God bless you, Jerry Falwell. May you rest in peace, a peace that escaped you in this life. For diminishing and denigrating others can never bring peace.

The light in me sees the light in you, Jerry Falwell...Dotti

Why isn't Spitzer running for President NOW??

Who? What? When? The "who" is Governor Spitzer of New York. The "what" is for President. The "when" is now. Yes, we wish Governor Spitzer was running for President in 2008, and not waiting until 2012! Ok, we admit we are ambitious and optimistic. It has been said before about us, and it isn't the worst thing we have heard about ourselves. Check out the article, Gay Rites Will Help Families, which begins as follows in the New York Times:

Legalizing gay marriage would "only strengthen New York's families," according to Governor Spitzer, who laid forth his most detailed argument in favor of recognizing same-sex relationships in a legislative memo.

Mr. Spitzer, who late last month became the nation's first governor to propose legislation legalizing gay marriage, articulated a legal and moral argument in defense of the bill in a two-page "statement in support" that is being distributed to lawmakers.

Click on the following link for the rest of the story: Gay Rites Will Help Families, Spitzer Says...New Memo Discloses Governor's Case

Ok, do you have any better ideas? None of the other choices, on either the Republican or Democratic side, are willing to fully embrace us. How can we increase the creative tension that can impact this situation with our politicians? What can you, as an individual, do?

The most impactful thing is to share your authentic life with friends and family. Live as the gift that you are. You, your friends and your family are the ones who create the wind that changes the direction for politicians who hold up their finger to see which way the wind is blowing before deciding their stance.

The light in me honors the light in each of you, Dotti

FOR THE BIBLE TELLS ME SO...Do you believe it?

We heard from our friend, Dan Karslake a couple of days ago. He wrote, "I wanted to let you know that my film, FOR THE BIBLE TELLS ME SO, will be screening in the Seattle International Film Festival on June 3rd and 4th. I’ll be there for both screenings so I’d love to see you! I know that you travel almost constantly, so I won’t be surprised if you’re somewhere else during that time…but just in case, I wanted to let you know!"

The good news is that we will be in town and are going down for the screening! Dan's film was one of only 16 documentaries accepted by the Sundance Film Festival this past year. Check out the Seattle International Film Festival for the details about the screenings.

Every time I hear the title of his movie, I love it, and also think, "When will our community actually start believing it?" Dan's movie is a great step in helping folks who are "wrestling" with their understanding. These folks who are attempting to reconcile their beliefs and understanding of homosexuality with who we are, no matter what their sexual orientation. Toxic religion has impacted people of any sexual orienation, making it difficult to either accept others or to accept oneself. Either way, it is a shame that God's words have been used in such a manner.

Speaking of the Bible...Lars Clausen in his book, Straight Into Gay America, says it best...

I'm loving this DC week. Inside the beltway, inside the nerve center of our country, I'm finding edges all over the place, feeling at home here. My Sunday morning unicycle ride ends at Luther Place, a congregation known across the country for putting justice at the front of its mission. They have shelters for homeless. They started the nation-wide Lutheran Volunteer Corps. They advocate for queer inclusion. On a stone outside Luther place is a quote from the Bible, from Leviticus, from Rabbi Namath's Old Testament. Not the gay-bashing quote. It's not the condemning biblical reference I've heard all through this ride, about men lying with men being an abomination. No, this quote comes from the very next chapter. A second benediction.

When strangers sojourn
with you in your land,
you shall not do them wrong.
The s trangers who sojourn
with you shall be to you
as the native among you,
and you shall love them as yourself:
for I am the Lord Your God.

What if...what if...what if...we chose this verse to hold as literal truth?

Yes, "What if?" May each of you see the light within that can then shine out upon each of us, helping to light our path. Dotti

What’s the difference between Imus and Dr. James Dobson?

Imus lost his career. Dr. James Dobson still has his.

Connect the dots. Both spew toxic rhetoric that is erroneous and harms and vilifies people. Imus’ career received the death sentence. James Dobson, founder of Focus on the Family, receives a national media platform.

As a former women’s basketball coach at the University of Kentucky in the early 80’s, I am familiar with many fine young women and dedicated athletes. I feel grateful that Coach Vivian Stringer and the Rutgers women’s basketball team had the courage to confront the erroneous and abusive comments by Imus, inspiring our country to engage in an important and deeper conversation. Our organization, Stand UP Speak OUT, names these courageous voices our newest Wind Changers, recognizing the Power of One to access and impact the Power in All of US.

While others held up their finger to see which way the wind was blowing before they spoke, these important voices of Coach Vivian Stringer and the Rutger’s Women’s Basketball Team automatically did the right thing. Without flinching, they held Imus accountable. They didn't ask that he be dimissed from his show. They let others supply the pressure by asking him to recant his diminishing remarks. They became Wind Changers, exerting their wind to alter the opinion of those who sought to discover their direction by holding up their finger. We hope their actions help each of us understand how we have failed to embrace Dr. King’s words, “None of us are free until all of us are free.”

Using Gandhi’s and King’s non-violent process to confront Dr. James Dobson regarding his abusive and toxic rhetoric, we recently suffered arrest as part of Focus on the Facts, a campaign by Soulforce at Focus on the Family in Colorado Springs. Few cared, fewer noticed, and Dobson’s comments, as vile and harmful as those of Imus, continue unchecked as he receives a national media platform for them. Where’s the public outrage?

Prominent scientists Dr. Carol Gilligan and Dr. Kyle Pruitt recently voiced their concerns, publicly challenging Dr. Dodson’s misuse of their research to validate his point of view regarding same gender parents. Dobson’s tactics for verbally abusing and diminishing our community have a long and sordid history. Where is the media scrutiny calling for accountability? Where is the public outcry against Dr. Dobson’s comments?

No one suggested that Imus be given a platform to validate his comments. His act of accepting complete responsibility by meeting with the attacked and offering a face-to-face apology saved him from being further ostracized, even if it didn’t save his career. Recanting the misinformation was our specific request of Dr. Dobson. Surely a man of his moral stature should be willing to take that step. Instead, Dr. Dobson continues speaking to 40 million people daily, his toxic rhetoric against our community causing barely the lift of an eyebrow, and his Love Won Out conferences being invited by churches to fill their sanctuaries. Rather than exhibiting moral integrity by acknowledging those who pointed out the lack of connection between his comments and their research, he did an about-face and vilified them, accusing them of being “gay activists.”

In Citizen’s Link, the newsletter arm of Focus on the Family, Imus was taken to task for his comments by both Tom Minnery and Gary Schneeberger.

Imus Dishonors Remarkable Women (April 10, 2007)
by Tom Minnery, senior vice president, government and public policy

It's Hard Out Here for Decency (April 11, 2007)
by Gary Schneeberger, senior director
Don Imus is being lambasted – and rightly so – for recent hateful comments. But he's just a symptom of a larger disease: the increasing coarsening of culture.

Can you get the obvious disconnect here? Don Imus is pummeled for his comments. Focus on the Family and Gary Schneeberger, who came out to tell us that "Dr. Dobson doesn't ever want to meet with you" feels that there is no problem with Dr. Dobson's comments about gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons.

Each song, film, TV show, Internet or print article and talk-show comment that enters the pop culture mainstream has the potential to do good or ill. To build people up or tear them down. To offer hope or despair.

Don Imus long contributed to the latter half of those equations. But he is hardly alone. A society truly outraged by his remarks would do more than realize that – it would do something about it.

James Dobson should take a lesson from Imus, own his mistakes, and accept responsibility for the harm his words have caused gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons. Indeed, Dr. Dobson, Tom Minnery, Gary Schneeberger and Focus on the Family have the opportunity each day to build people up or tear them down. To offer hope or despair. We will give them their due by saying that, in many cases, they do lift people up. Unfortunately, all they have offered our gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender community is despair by continually tearing us down, implanting false information into the hearts and minds of those who trust Dr. Dobson.

Dr. Dobson has received a national media platform to present “the other side” of the argument every time the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender community stands up and speak out for ourselves. Indeed, they have contributed to the latter half of those equations of tearing us down. Indeed a society truly outraged by his remarks would do more than realize that—it would do something about it.

It has taken 40+ years since the passing of civil rights legislation for racist comments to become unacceptable. Yes, even though they still occur (as evidenced by Imus and others such as comedian Michael Richards), today there is a stigma attached to being a racist. The quickness with which both the public spoke and corporations withdrew sponsorships, thus costing Imus his career, shows that there is now a stigma to heterosexism in combination with racism. But there is still no stigma to being homophobic.

Our gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender community can help to shorten the time table it takes for the development of a stigma for being homophobic by living as the gift that we are. Let’s empower our own community by encouraging one another to live authentic lives. Until we turn the corner and make toxic homophobic comments about our community as unacceptable as racist ones, no one is truly free. Let’s eradicate the homophobia that is alive and well in our country, and expressed on an ongoing basis by James Dobson, and supported by Gary Schneeberger, who couldn’t understand why we asked Dr. Dobson to recant remarks. Dr. Dobson's comments that aren't just hateful, they are literally eroneous. They are more than "This is my opinion." They are untrue AND inflamatory...just like those of Imus.

Is anyone listening? Does anyone care? How we get others to connect the dots and say, "No more!"

We need more love, not fear. We need more love, not less.

Thanks to each of you who are opening your hearts to more authentic connections, deeper conversations, and more love.

Dotti and Robynne

What lessons do Imus, Dobson, Va. Tech and the war in Iraq offer us?

Yes, this is our first blog during April. A lot has happened in our world during the last few weeks...from people's feelings about our confronting Dr. Dobson being a hopeless situation, to more deaths in Iraq, to our own travels and speaking in Oregon, to more deaths in Iraq, to the Imus situation, to more deaths in Iraq, to the killings at Virginia Tech, to more deaths in Iraq, to many people questioning whether or not the media should have aired the video from a killer who so desperately wanted a media platform for his manifesto that he overnighted his package containing perverted violence in between the first shootings and his second rampage, to more deaths in Iraq. When will it end? Are there lessons to learn?

During this time, we have written and and written, and then stopped short of finishing some writing, feeling at times overwhelmed. We back up now to share some of our insights, as well as some responses to comments from folks.

In our March 22 blog, KNOW WHO YOU ARE, we shared comments from a friend, acknowledging the importance of her questions and conversation. Clarification and understanding regarding "why" we approach Dr. Dobson is necessary and important.

Her comments from that blog began with

Well ladies ....I hate to break this to you, but with Dr. Dobson you are screaming at the deaf."

Her comments remind us that Dr. Dobson has indeed refused to meet and/or talk with us; however, but we also recognize that the deaf can "hear us" if we continue to implement creative ways for communication.

We've also since discovered that we aren't the only ones with whom Dr. Dobson is not talking. Cara DeGette first wrote this article, More Skirmishes Likely At Focus HQ, the week after our arrest on February 19, 2007.

A comment in the article from Gary Schneeberger, and repeated below, provides the very "monologue" that we have been hearing for over ten years, as Focus on the Family refuses to have any dialogue with Soulforce.

"We’ve heard what they’ve had to say, and they are not interested in dialogue — they are interested in monologue," Schneeberger says.

Sounds like the same tactics that Rev. Ted Haggard used. Call attention to what you don't like by calling it exactly what you are doing.

The above article then led to her next one, Focus on the Burning Bridging, detailing how she has been shut out, permanently it appears, from Focus on the Family speaking with her any longer.

Cara says,

"I’ve been 86’ed by Focus on the Family. Again. That’s right, after a sometimes on, mostly off-again 14-year relationship, the Christian ministry and media empire has notified me that it will never, ever, ever, deign to be interviewed by yours truly again. I’ve burned all my bridges, I’m told, the ones that connect readers with the massive ministry that is headquartered in northern Colorado Springs.

My crime? Well this time I really did it. I accurately quoted their spokesman. That's right. Accurately.

Here's how it happened: Last week, Colorado Confidential reported on an incident involving two lesbians who were hauled away by Colorado Springs cops on Feb. 19, after they refused to leave Focus on the Family. They wanted a private audience with the ministry's founder James Dobson, to talk to him about his position on homosexuality."

So, check out Focus on the Burning Bridge to read "the rest of the story." Her article was later also carried in the Colorado Springs Independent.

Michael de Yoanna, with the Colorado Springs Independent, interviewed us when we returned to Colorado Springs to face the judge. You can read his article, Focusing on ...Focus: Recent Soulforce arrest at Springs campus portends campaign to come.

Amazingly, when we wrote our blog, KNOW WHO YOU ARE, the Imus incident had not happened. Who could have foreseen the national conversation that would happen?

That is why it is important for us to continue being the gift that we are, whether that be with Dr. Dobson or with friends and family. We never know when the tipping point will happen. Hindsight will simply inform us that it has occurred as we observe the results of it.

And how could we have known that Russell Simmons, the founder of Def Jam Records who brought hip-hop into the American mainstream, was about to release his book, Do You! 12 Laws to Access the Power in You to Achieve Happiness and Success when we wrote that blog? Our theme of Live Authentic...Whatever It Takes! resonates with his belief that "It's the practice of listening to your inner voice," not the money that matters.

Russell says. "I think that all of us know that there's a source that connects all of us. You can call it God if you want, or whatever you call it, the idea is that there's a voice inside you. There's something that connects us all and when you're in touch with that, it allows you access to anything in the universe."

Our hearts feel heavy for all that has recently happened. The Imus situation has been handled, with the impact of his toxic rhetoric publicized for all to see, and for him to feel through an inperson meeing with Coach Vivian Stringer and the Rutgers' women's basketball team. Those who supported him in the past said, "No more!" and we got to see up close and personal that sometimes there are consequences of such rhetoric that diminishes others. Unfortunately, people are not yet connecting the dots between the poisonous rhetoric of Imus and that of Dobson. While Imus lost his career, Dr. Dobson continues to receive a national media platform to bolster his toxic rhetoric. There is a stigma to being both racist and heterosexist. There is no stigma to being homophobic and heterosexist. The killings at Virginia Tech were abhorrent, but are over, though the impact of them will continue forever. That more deaths in Iraq continue to happen daily seems like there is no end in sight to a senseless war.

What lessons are we learning? What lessons are you learning? We must each search our hearts for understanding.

That's it for this blog. We will catch up more tomorrow.

May you seek peace through love, leaving fear behind...Dotti & Roby

Unsung Heroes

Unsung heroes are similar to Stand Up Speak OUT Wind Changers in that they truly made a difference. What is unique about them is that they are no longer with us, and the impact of their lives often has gone unheralded. They were Stand UP Speak OUT Wind Changers in their era, the unsung heroes throughout history. These people went the extra mile to create equality and justice for all people, even when it created personal hardships because it wasn't the popular thing to do. Below are a few we have discovered. Some are individuals who are part of the discriminated group; others are allies for those who endured discrmination. An article about Unsung Heroes by Howard Zinn, a columnist for The Progressive, gives examples of historical figures we can truly admire and emulate.

Juanita Hairston, on April 1, 1944, made a name for herself and helped start a movement. Read how Civil Rights Came Slowly, Softfly to Colorado Springs. It might have been April Fool's Day in 1994, but Juanita was no fool. She was smart enough to take action for justice years before it all began in other parts of the country. She is a new hero to us, and a reminder of why we do what we do.

Obed Dickinson was a pioneer preacher of First Congregational Church in the 1850's and 1860's. His 14-year tenure was embroiled in controversy because of what was referred to as "Negro sympathy." What was he doing that so infuriated some folks? He invited black into the church, baptized them and married them. He was criticized for being so brazen. And, to top it off, he continued to preach about the sings of slavery, despite recommendations that he stop. Click here to read the "rest of the story."

We feel so inspired by these individuals...They were truly people ahead of their time in making a difference for us, for you, for everyone. It is often easy to get wrapped up in what is not happening the way we want it to happen, getting attached to a specific outcome, creating fear and disappointment. When we read about Juanita and Obed, we are reminded of the importance of staying the course, planting the seeds of change. When they come to fruition is not something we are privy to knowing. Doing the right thing, regardless of the consequences and unattached to a specific outcome, propels us forward each day.

Contact us if you know of an unsung hero who needs highlighting. Or, if you know of a great person who is truly a Stand UP Speak OUT Wind Changer, let us know about them!

Peace...not just for tomorrow, but for today. Dotti & Roby